How I Manifested My Husband Through The Law Of Attraction
Let's go back in time to the early 2000's...the year was 2003 to be specific. I believe this was the year I started bleaching my hair blonde in addition to keeping up with my relaxer so I could pretend to be Beyonce in the "Crazy In Love" video. All of my hair fell out 2 years later, but I digress. On this particular night, I was alone in my room balling my eyes out over my then boyfriend who I decided I was not going to spend another ounce of energy on. In the moment, teenage heartbreak feels like the end of the world. Can you relate? I had been with this person off and on all throughout junior high and high school, but on this day, I was over it. Although it was a hard decision to make, I knew it was the right one for my sanity. I was already dealing with my parents informing me just weeks prior that they were going to be getting a divorce and that I would be moving to Florida for my senior year of high school. Girl, I was stressed. At 16 years old, I was pretty sure that I was just going to die.
After spending the entire day crying, I decided to write in my diary. Instead of my usual "Dear Diary", the idea came in my head that I should write a letter to God. While I'm all about The Lord these days, my relationship wasn't as strong with him as a teenager. However, I just knew that he was the only person that could help me to mend my broken heart [ insert Ashanti's "Rain On Me" for extra teenage dramatics ]. Full of emotion, I wrote to God and informed him that I was NEVER going through this again. In order for me to guarantee this, I told him that he needed to make sure that the next person he put in my life was my soulmate. I laugh every time I tell this story because my sister is 15 going on 16 and when I look at her, I just can't even imagine her having such a fierce intention about love. I should've put some of that energy into my math class! However, in that moment, I meant every word that I was writing. Without knowing it at the time, I was utilizing "The Law Of Attraction" and sending a very strong request to God and The Universe.
Not only did I make this demand, I wrote a very specific and detailed list of what I wanted my husband to be. From his height, to his complexion, to his personality traits, his nationality - I wrote down all of it. I had this dream guy in my head and I put it all down in this letter to God. This was not a wishy-washy request. It was, "Here is what I want and you're going to give to me". Most importantly, I believed that one day I was going to have an amazing person in my life. I was so convinced this was going to happen that I had the strength to hang up on my ex when he called a few weeks later without hesitation. Not today Satan! You can't make room for new and better but if you're still hanging on to something (or someone) old. That goes for material things, people, jobs, etc.
I made my request, I believed and I let it go in God's hand...
In the Spring of 2004, I was fresh from my birthday trip home to Jamaica when my best friend told me she was going to meet up with a guy she was talking to. I had nothing better to do so I asked if I could tag along. With my hair in a wrap (bobby pins and all) and in my sneakers, she picked me so that I could keep her company for the drive. She got out to talk to the person while I stayed in the car listening to radio and played on my phone. Man, text messaging was so complicated back then. There I was minding my business when this guy taps on the window. I was annoyed, who is this person and why are they speaking to me? I wasn't really in a talking mood, but I decided to be polite and put the window down.
He began telling me that he drove his friend to come meet up with my friend, and he was bored. He asked me to come out the car and hang out with him because he didn't know how long they'd be talking for. I wasn't in the mood, but really, what else was I going to do? So I got out the car and went to be friendly.
"By the way, my name is Ken", he told me.
Yup, on this random night in a parking lot, I made a new friend who became by boyfriend sometime later, and my husband after 5 years of dating.
So you're probably thinking, "This story is cute and all, but how does it apply to me?". Whether you know it or not, "The Law Of Attraction" it's a major part of your life as well. Even if you don't believe in it, it's working in your life every single day - so you might as well learn how to use it to your advantage. Along with a strong belief in the things you desire, journaling is a great way to manifest the things that you want. There is so much power in writing things down.
Now that I'm aware of the laws that govern us and how much power we posses within ourselves, I'm intentional about what I allow myself to spend time thinking about, what I write down and what I say. The Universe is listening to every thing you say which is why it's imperative that even in the bad moments, you find something to be positive to focus on.
Is there something you really want in your life? A new love? A new home? More money? Write it down!
Whether it's love, a better career, more meaningful friendships - you can manifest anything you want in life by using "The Law Of Attraction". You have the power within yourself to make your life completely different in a year from now than it is today. Once you understand this and learn how to utilize that power, you will never feel hopeless in any aspect of your life again. With a simple attitude shift and understanding of how powerful you are, you can turn it all around.
Your current circumstance means nothing to The Universe. It doesn't matter how many times you've failed at something, nor does it matter if what you want seems impossible. You're still allowed to desire the things that you want. God and The Universe will create a way for you. It's not your job to figure out how something will come about, all you have to do is ask for it and believe that you will have it. If I knew that I was going to meet my future husband on the night that I did, I would've at least combed my hair and put on some nice clothes...but hey, that stuff doesn't actually matter when it comes to fate.
I'm not sure what you have planned today, but I'd suggest watching "The Secret" on Netflix. Reading the book changed my life and I now watch the documentary a couple times per month to keep my vibrations high. It is how I learned about "The Law Of Attraction" and why I have released all limitations that I had on my life. Again, this law is in motion even if you don't believe it so you may as well become aware and in control of your energy.
If I dig hard enough, I can probably find that list I wrote about my dream husband. While my younger self didn't make a lot of great decisions, I'm thankful for the night I made that power request. My husband is pretty amazing! I'm Blessed and grateful for God and The Law of Attraction bringing us together.
HAPPY VALENTINES DAY EVERYONE !!